قصيدة عرفت الهوى - من العشق الالهى

عرفت الهوى

طاهر ابو فاشا

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عرفت الهوى مذ عرفت هواكا

واغلقت قلبى عمن عداكا

وقمت أناجيك يامن ترى خفايا القلوب ولسنا نراكا

احبك حبين.. حب الهوى وحبا لانك اهل لذاكا

فأما الذى هو حب الهوى فشغلى بذكرك عمن سواكا

واما الذى انت اهل له فكشفك لى الحجب حتى اراكا

فلا الحمد فى ولا ذاك لى ولكن لك الحمد فى ذا وذاكا

احبك حبين ...حب الهوى وحبا لانك اهل لذذاكا

واشتاق شوقين ..شوق النوى

وشوقا لقرب الخلى من حماكا

فأما الذى هو شوق النوى

فمسيرى الدموى لطول نواكا

واما ما اشتياقى لقرب الحمى

فنار حياه خبت فى ضياكا

ولست على الشجو اشكو الهوى

رضيت بما شئت لى فى هداكا

يا الله أنت الحبيب الأول

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الانسان بدون حب انسان

ضائع متشرد بدون اهل بدون سكن

بدون وطن بدون شئ يمت اليه بالقرابة

بدون شئ يمسك عليه وجوده ويلضم لحظاته بعضها فى بعض

انه يتبعثر فى الف رغبه تنتهى الى ملل

وكل ملل ينتهى الى يأس

لانه يصبح مجرد شهوات حلقها جاف تزداد عطشا كلما ارتوت

لا شئ يملأ ذراعيه ولا شئ يملا قلبه

ولا شئ يملا عينيه

زائغ زائغ على الدوام ...

ان الجحيم اهون...... ان الموت اهون .... من ان نعيش حياتنا بلا حب

واعظم حب هو ان نحب الخالق العظيم الذى خلقنا ونعطى له وجهنا كما تعطى زهرة عباد
الشمس وجهها للشمس

خبير فى الحب

اقوال غير مأثورة

د مصطفــى محمـــود
الأحـــــلام

إذا لم تجد من يسعدك فحاول ان تسعد نفسك - منقول بتصرف

* لا تيأس اذا تعثرت اقدامك وسقطت في حفرة واسعه فسوف
تخرج منها وانت اكثر تماسكا وقوة والله مع الصابرين


* لا تحزن اذا جاءك سهم قاتل من اقرب الناس الى قلبك
فسوف تجد من ينزع السهم ويعيد لك الحياة والابتسامه




* لا تضع كل احلامك في شخص واحد ولاتجعل رحلة عمرك
وجه شخص تحبه مهما كانت صفاته ولا تعتقد ان نهايه الاشياء
هي نهاية العالم فليس الكون هو ما ترى عيناك


* لا تحاول البحث عن حلم خذلك وحاول ان تجعل من حالة
الانكسار بداية حلم جديد



* لا تقف كثيرا على الاطلال خاصة اذا كانت الخفافيش قد
سكنتها والاشباح عرفت طريقها وابحث عن صوت عصفور
يتسلل وراء الافق مع ضوء صباح جديد



*لا تنطر الى الاوراق التي تغير لونها وبهتت حروفها وتاهت
سطورها بين الالم والوحشة سوف تكتشف ان هذه السطور
ليست اجمل ما كتبت وان هذه الاوراق ليست اخر ما سطرت
ويجب ان تفرق بين من وضع سطورك في عينيه
ومن القى بها للرياح


* لا تكن مثل مالك الحزين هذا الطائر العجيب الذي يغني اجمل
الحانه وهو ينزف فلا شي في الدنيا يستحق من دمك نقطة واحده




* اذا اغلقت الشتاء ابواب بيتك وحاصرتك تلال الجليد من كل مكان
فانتظر قدوم الربيع وافتح نوافذك لنسمات الهواء النقي وانظر بعيدا
فسوف ترى اسراب الطيور وقد عادت تغني


* لا تسافر الى الصحراء بحثا عن الاشجار الجميله فلن تجد
في الصحراء غير الوحشة وانظر الى مئات الاشجار التي
تحتويك بظلها



* لا تحاول ان تعيد حساب الامس وما خسرت فيه فالعمر حين
تسقط اوراقه لن تعود مرة اخرى



* اذا كان الامس ضاع فبين يديك اليوم واذا كان اليوم سوف يجمع
اوراقه ويرحل فلديك الغد لا تحزن على الامس فهو لن يعود
ولا تاسف على اليوم فهو راحل واحلم بشمس مضيئه في غد جميل

This is what I think ..... (II)

- Aim at having a life in your life.

- Love is not obsession, it is not controlling. It’s first of all trust then comes giving, sharing, caring and accepting.

- Most of the time you are not aware of the bigger plan, so be careful with the small steps you take, of which you are aware.

- The woman doesn't just seek a man to love but also a man who is able to love.

- Each one of us has his/her own share of pain, I just wish that we could give each other the excuse and the space.

- I agree that we shouldn't magnify our pain, but it still hurts, it's still pain.

- I wish to live till the day when humans admit that they don't have full control over this world, when they admit that their understanding on their own is limited.

- Since it's only me and myself after all, I guess I've to do my best to try to keep myself happy.

- If you can't find pleasure in simple things, how do you expect to find it in big ones.

- Why bad things happen to good people ? well.. I think because they are the best to know how to handle it in a good way :-).

- Since very early in my life I refused to be the doll, I refused to be the amuser, but it seems that "who I am" became my curse, how strange and confusing and consuming this life could be!

- People sometimes misinterpret religion, but if you ask me, I would say that religion truly and in essence is all about being positive, it is about bringing out the best in you.

- I wonder if people who built their relationships on scoring points, wrestling and mind games realize that this is a waste of time and energy big time.

- Big difference between "Stubbornness" and "Perseverance", stubbornness is when you insist on your stand whether it's right or wrong, Perseverance is when you insist while knowing deep inside that you are on the right track.

- I find it a bit strange that people can live & enjoy being superior in the eyes of other people, but accept being inferior within themselves.

- Something that I've noticed lately, which is that people keep lying to themselves and to others until they lose track of the truth, within themselves and with others.

- Sometimes the last straw is actually what makes you stronger !!

- Life is tough, no doubt, after admitting that let's just fight, live and get over with it.

- The one who gets me will be the one.

- We were once one, we have one origin, which indicates that with tolerance and an open mind we can cope and live togother.

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جهل المقهور ، نعمة للقاهر و نقمة للمقهور-

حين يرميني أحد بلقب مثقفة استشعر الرهبة لظني أني لا أستحق اللقب بعد، فهناك الكثير الذي لا أعرفه و الكثير لأراجعه، أشعر بأن الثقافة و المعرفة بحر كبير، و أنا مازلت أقف علي شاطئه و لم تمس قدمي مياهه بعد

لا أري عيبا في أن أنتمي إلي هذا الجانب أو ذاك، فهذا ليس مانعا في أن أرغب في نفس الوقت في التوافق بين هذا و ذاك

Don’t show off with your sins

People consider themselves smart, smart in pretending to be what they want others to think they are, although they know that they are not.

They forget that God is smarter, and that he can ruin their plans. They think they can fool people, and mostly they can but they can’t fool God.

But because they aren’t as smart as they think they are, they reveal their true self without noticing, in what they say, their facial expressions, the logic they use and the overall consistency of their behavior, these are things out of their control, controlling all this is above their mental capabilities.

If you concentrate hard enough you will get it, you will bring down their false buildings, this exposure might shock them and turn the love or care to “Envy”, but they just don’t know that “Envy” is a fire burning those who start it.

This is what I think..... (I)

- Use your curiosity not to poke your nose into others’ affairs but rather in the world’s affairs.

- If you really want to learn, discover yourself first.

- When you feel angry or envious it’s Ok, God knows that you will have those feelings, and because God knows us very well, God gave us the tools to deal with those feelings and fight them in what we know as “Bigger Gihad”.

- When you start giving you are not losing, people don’t take from your share, but rather they are taking from God’s share which is endless.

- Each time you surrender to people's invitation/pressure to reply back with evil, you are actually not winning the battle, but losing yourself a bit by bit, which is the real lose.

- Be yourself & make the best out of it. There is a reason for being the way you are.

- When you see people who live by their principles, you can call them the exception, but don’t tell me that they can’t be imitated, because they exist.

- The biggest blessing you will ever enjoy and in the same time suffer from is “Compassion”.

- Knowledge is embedded within you and in the universe, if you would notice, those who wrote the books from the beginning of time wrote them when there were no books then.

- Take your time understanding the information rather than being too much into collecting it.

- Don’t try to change yourself for someone because you still won’t fit. Be yourself and search for your match.

- Taking the safe choice all the time doesn’t mean that you are safe. Risk is inescapable.

- Don't bother yourself searching or picking on people's flaws, it's between them and God.

What you are saying is just simple, I already know..

We often hear that, but do we really know, you might hear something, you certainly know the information but that doesn’t mean that you “KNOW”. I’m not talking about terminologies or rocket science, I am talking about meanings in life.

I really love proverbs & quotes, they are simple in their form but when it comes to the meaning they carry it’s huge. You can just read one line but keep wondering and pondering about the meaning for a long time, and you can be really lucky if you were able to apply it someday. When I come across such words I just get overwhelmed.

Let me share with you some of the wise words I’ve collected throughout my life, since university I started to carry a small notebook in my hand bag, and whenever I come across something I like, I just write it down and keep it for the future.

Here are some, some of those words I only know, some I really understand, some I am still working on understanding and others I already applied:

-The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.

-The only way not to commit a mistake is to do nothing, and this in our world today is the ultimate mistake.

- You got to be the change you wish to see in this world.

- What you choose now is what you be.

- The more you know, the less you need to show.

- By “making sense” of our experience that we human beings grow wiser.

- Seek respect rather than popularity.

- Protect your enthusiasm from negativity of other people.

- Believe in miracles but never depend on them.

- Be willing to accept a temporary inconvenience for a lasting improvement.

- If you don’t go after what you want you’ll never have it. If you don’t ask, the answer is always no. If you don’t step forward, you are always in the same place.

- Whenever you share the goodness in your heart, you always end up “winning”, because life is an echo, it gives back what you have given.

- No trumpets sound when the important decisions of our life are made. Destiny is made known silently.

- من لا أعداء له، لا رأي له، و من لا رأي له، لا وجود له. ثروت اباظة

- ما نملكه لا نحافظ عليه، بل و الأكثر من ذلك أن ماتملكه اليد تزهده النفس. انطون تشيخوف

- برؤسنا لا برؤسهم يجب أن نفكر.

- المغلوب مولع بتقليد الغالب. بن خلدون

- ينبغي أن ندرك في تطور الحداث و تغير تصاريف الزمان لعب الطوارئ غير المرتقبة و المقادير غير المنظورة.

- ما لك سوف يأتيك في ضعفك و ما ليس لك لن يأتيك بقوتك.

- كلما اتسعت الرؤية ضاقت العبارة.

- من عرف من لا يصلحون له فقد عرف الصالح المنشود. عبد الوهاب مطاوع

- المعتدل هو طبيب نفسه. حسن البصري

- إن العقل هو الذي يصنع الخير و الشر، و هو الذي يجعل الإنسان سعيدا أو شقيا. هربرت سبنسر

- لن يغني حذر من قدر

- الأخيار و الفضلاء: إذا رضوا لم يدخلهم الرضا في باطل، و إذا غضبوا لم يخرجهم الغضب عن حق، و إذا قدروا عفوا.

- أراك قد افسدت عليه دنياه و أفسد عليك آخرتك.

- لو رزق المؤمن الفهم في المنع عاد المنع عين العطاء

- من طلب عزا بالباطل، أورثه الله ذلا بالحق

- من مدحك فإنما مدح مواهب الله فيك، فالشكر لمن منحك و ليس من مدحك. الحسن البصري

- الغرور هو نعمة الله لأصحاب النفوس الصغيرة. شكسبير

- كن كالنخيل عن الأحقاد مرتفعا بالطوب يرمي فيعطي أطيب الثمر.

- إن أخطر ما يقع فيه الإنسان هو أن يسئ تقدير ذكاء الأخرين، فيفترض فيهم الغباء. عبد الوهاب مطاوع

You know the way..remember that

People will tell you “Don’t do it”, some people will fear for you, others would just want to hinder you. But I tell you “Go for it”, you can be whatever you dream to be, believe it hard enough and you will reach it, or at least die trying.

Believe your own self, trust your instinct, you see things others don’t see and this is enough to make you understand it differently and can deal with it differently.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t listen to others, or that people’s advice doesn’t count, but again they see it from their own perspective, their own window let’s say. What they say might help you broaden your view but again the last call is yours, it’s your life.